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IN LOVING MEMORY OF
Lanny Ralph
Sander
June 6, 1939 – February 10, 2025
Lanny Ralph Sander was welcomed into his Heavenly home on February 10, 2025, at the age of 85. He was born on June 6, 1939 to his parents Ralph Clayton and Crystal Maurice (Workman) Sander in Woodward, Oklahoma. Lanny, along with his parents and 3 brothers, spent his childhood west of Seiling. He attended Seiling schools and graduated as Valedictorian of the Class of 1957. On October 17, 1958, Lanny married his high school sweetheart Betty June Gilchrist in Watonga, OK. They were blessed with three sons: Kirk, Kent, and Kyle. The family farm west of Seiling was established in 1975 when the boys were young. This is where Lanny and Betty raised their family and spent the rest of their 59 years of marriage together. Some knew Lanny as "Okie Slim", and his love for livestock was evident through his raising of Beefmaster cattle. He was a true farmer and rancher; people would come from near and far to purchase a bull from his herd. Those who were closest to Lanny would agree that his passion was raising cattle. A long time member of The Seiling Masonic Lodge #495, Lanny served in many different offices including being elected as Grand Master of the state of Oklahoma in 2000. He was very proud to receive his 50-year Masonic pin and to have served as the President of the MSA. Over the years, he was involved in Rainbow, Eastern Star, Shriner's International, York Rite, and many other Masonic and community programs. He was thrilled to lead all his sons and grandsons to become Masons. Lanny's greatest pride and joy came from his children and grandchildren. He wanted to be part of everything they did, including ballgames, pageants, track meets, birthday parties, livestock shows, and much more. Lanny is preceded in death by his wife, Betty; parents, Ralph and Crystal; brothers, Berny and Lindy; and granddaughter, Darci Sander. He leaves behind a legacy of love through his remaining family. His memory will forever be cherished by his sons; Kirk and wife Michelle, Kent and wife Kim, and Kyle and wife Helen, all from the Seiling area. Others who will miss his smile and guidance in their lives are his beloved grandchildren; Clay and wife Callee, Chad and wife Kayce, Crystal Cockrell and husband Ayden, Carmen Cumpston and husband Eddie, Nicole Warrick and husband Paden, Thomas and wife Jill, and Todd and wife Marci. Through these grandchildren, Lanny's life was blessed by 8 great grandchildren; Kyah Paige, Kamee Kae, Brantley Mac, Parker Rae, Hunter Lane, Lucy Mae, Sloane Darci, and Annie June. He will also be missed by his brother, Monty Sander of Napa, California; sisters-in-law, Inez and Linda Sue both of Seiling; along with nieces, nephews, other relatives and countless friends.
Memorial Donations in Lanny's honor may be made to:
NWOSU Foundation
Memo: Darci Sander Memorial Scholarship
C/O Redinger Funeral Home, P.O. Box 236, Seiling, OK 73663
Visitation
Redinger Funeral Home
9:00 am - 7:00 pm
Funeral Service
Elm Grove Community Church
Starts at 2:00 pm
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